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Separating Abundance And Greed

Post author By Remson
Post date May 2, 2017

Life is for those who desire! Passion will make every deep breath feel like the first breath you ever took, but for some of us, we have no idea what that could possibly feel like, that or they’ve forgotten…damn. So what’s getting in the way of that feeling? For some of us, wanting more is the same as being greedy. Some of us tell ourselves that we should be happy with what we have and unfortunately that’s where the story ends. I don’t accept that and neither should you, so let’s talk about separating abundance and greed.

Are You Really Being Greedy?

Greed is driven by desire yes, but its also driven by a level of narcissism that ultimately plagues the lives of anyone in an effective range. Even a beautiful vision can become a cancer. A greedy man could have the vision of growing and incredible garden, larger than anyone has ever seen in our lifetime. This garden would grow with petals, leaves, and seeds painted with all the colors of the entire universe. It would be such a marvel to the point that it would inspire people of all lands to travel to this garden simply to bare witness to it.

Sounds like a beautiful vision to have, but this greedy man would create nightmares in order to fulfill his vision. He would cause massive drought in the land of the disenfranchised in order to feed his garden. He would horde supplies and starve others with less leverage than him to feed his garden. If he could, he would move the sun away from others if it meant growing his garden faster.

This may be an extreme example of greed, but still practical enough for you to get the idea.

The Abundant Mind

If only we had a better understanding of abundance, we would then understand that true abundance starts in the mind. True wealth and happiness stems from certain behavior and that behavior is an outward manifestation of an abundant mindset.

I’ve had the privilege of meeting people who understand and adopt this mindset and I’ve realized that they are able to achieve their dreams without impeding others. If that greedy man had an abundant mindset, he would be able to fulfill his vision of that beautiful garden and he’d be able to do it through the unity and prosperity of others, rather than to their detriment.

You see, the abundant minded person operates with the belief that they have everything they need in order to get what they want. This is why an abundant minded person has no need for greed, or any other unethical behavior.

Abundance VS Greed

Greed stems from the fear of lack combined with ones own love of their own flesh. This is a weakness to do your best to avoid being sucked into, but the answer is not to be overly humble to the point where you feel guilty for having desire. The only real protection from developing greed is to develop a mindset of abundance. Breathe deep and dream big, life is for those who desire.

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Creat Life Change With Pen And Paper

Post author By Remson
Post date May 1, 2017

What I want to talk about right now is a simple method to attract what you want with pen and paper. In a nutshell, the method is to create and write out what I call a desire statement.

Writing a desire statement is a strange thing because it works in miraculous ways, but you can’t really explain why. There’s no scientific or mathematical proof of how it works, but the world’s most successful people can testify with unshakable conviction that it works.

Many people say it works through the law of attraction. Many people say it works through the law of vibration. These are just mere concepts that we have developed over time to help understand how our world operates, but make no mistake that the energy you adopt is real. As far as energy goes, I want to talk to you about the energy, the influence of writing your desire statement.

Talking To Myself Like A Crazy Person Is How It Started

Before I dive in, I want to tell you a bit about how I first experienced the law of attraction and the law of vibration. Ever since I was a child I would talk to myself out loud, kinda like what some people would call a crazy person.

I would ask myself questions and even had answers! These were full blown conversations with myself to the point where if you did hear me, you’d think I was on the phone or something.

I would always try to find a quiet Isolated place, usually walking a long distance. I noticed that the type of energy of the conversation would dictate what would happen next. If I had a whole lot of negative stuff to say, I would attract bad energy, bad things would happen, and I would make bad choices.

If the conversation was positive and I felt good and spoke with confidence, excitement, and determination, my life would improve drastically! I mean drastically! I’d work harder, I’d be more open minded, I’d enjoy everything so much more, it was unbelievable!

Now most of my life I did this without the intention of manifestation, or attraction. It was more of a subconscious thing that made me behave like that, but as I learned about internal energy, wealth manifestation, law of attraction and vibration, I understood it more. I still talk to myself like a crazy person, but I do it with clear intention now.

What Does This Have To Do With A Desire Statement?

It has everything to do with it! Just like speaking, writing works the same way, but it has more power in its own way. To me its almost like writing and solidifying an agreement with yourself and the universe. Its on paper as documented proof to the world that this is your desire! You believe in it, you declare it, and you live it.

Hang it on your wall, by your work desk, or even over your bed. Take time to read it everyday and internalize that agreement, then go out and live in alignment to that agreement.

Here's An Example Of A Desire Statement

*Please note that it is important to write your desire statement in your own words. It has to come from the heart.

“I’m in the process of attracting all that I need to know, do, and have in order to attract my ideal body and lifestyle.

I love knowing that my ideal body and lifestyle allows me the freedom to enjoy life to the fullest capacity and create the influence to help others to do the same.

Abundance is a feeling I love and I love to feel that abundance all around me.

I love the feeling of being comfortable in my own skin and knowing true self love.

I’m so excited at the thought of looking in the mirror and seeing how much my body has changed.

I love knowing that my own personal growth brings me the opportunity to give and help others in need.

I love knowing that I have complete control over how I look and feel. Knowing that fills me with unbelievable joy.

I love the thought of creating the best version of my self. I love knowing that my family will be proud and inspired by the changes I’ve made.

The law of attraction is unfolding and working to bring me everything I desire.”

As always, I appreciate you and thanks for reading

-Remson

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Personal Development

The Rules Of Verbal Attraction

Post author By Remson
Post date May 1, 2017

The Rules Of Verbal Attraction

Verbally attract what you want into your life. How? Speak and command your mind to generate behavior that allows you to vibrate at the frequency you need to attract what you desire. If you can open your mind up enough to believe it, you can take action to achieve it.

I’m gonna share a little bit of my story about how I came across this method and dive a bit deeper into how this works, so keep reading.

I Kept My Own Company For A Really Long Time

From the age of 5 or maybe even 6 I spoke to myself, not in my head, but out loud. Honestly they were back and forth conversations, the type of behavior that would be exhibited in a mental institution. I don’t believe I did this from some kind of psychosis or anything, it was just a coping mechanism that allowed me to sort out my thoughts, express myself, and help me understand my environment.

I’d find a quiet isolated place and ramble away. I wasn’t very good at socializing with other people, and didn’t get halfway decent at it until I was around 15 or 16 years old. Even after I developed a social life, I still socialized more to myself. It wasn’t until now in my late 20’s that I started using this form of communication to manifest and attract what I wanted.

How I Figured It Out

Honestly, I just started paying more attention to the type of speech I was giving myself. I started noticing how certain conversations made me feel. Positive confident speech brought life changing experiences. When I spoke words of power to myself, they had influenced my behavior drastically and even seemed to influence the world around me. Fortune came to me in the most random, but perfect ways.

The negative speech also worked the same way, tearing down whatever the positive speech had brought to me. It almost seemed as if the negativity speech was twice as dangerous. I’d fall in the clutches of negative speech whenever pissed off, or disappointed at how unfair the world would seem to be and because of that, my energy would drop. I’d lose my influence over people. I felt distant from everyone and often hopeless. The longer the negative speech went on, the worse my life got. It even effected my income.

In desperate times I knew I had to make a change, a BIG change. Fast forward to today, I am now the master of my life due to the words I speak to myself. I walk amongst nature, speaking plans and strategies to myself of how I can improve and achieve the next success. I’d repeat affirmations of confidence and abundance to myself reinforcing the belief that my dreams are not fantasies, they are visions.

Speak To Your Subconscious Mind To Reprogram Your Behavior

When you speak like this out loud to yourself, you don’t just speak to the ears of your conscious mind, but you also speak to your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind is way more powerful than you realize, because it holds the codes to your autonomous behavior.

You ever get so used to doing something and never realize why you do it, or that you even do it at all? Most of our negative behaviors and limiting beliefs stem from your subconscious mind. Imagine if you can fix all of the problems in your life by directly reprogramming the subconscious mind? This is what I’ve discovered from personal experience.

Tell Yourself & The Universe What You Are In The Process Of Achieving

We’re so used to talking about what we want, but the universe only recognizes actions! Break out of the habit of talking about what you want and what you wish you had and start manifesting action!

Say what you’re in the process of doing and then do it! Tell yourself about the joy you feel from knowing what you’re in the process of getting. Verbally acknowledge how beautiful and brilliant you are and how fortunate you are to be just so!

It doesn’t have to make sense to your conscious mind!

Let go of your ego and speak love to yourself. Say it as many times as you need to until you feel it. Act from those words. Live in alignment with those words, that power!

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Personal Development

5 Steps Of Personal Development

Post author By Remson
Post date May 1, 2017

Over 10+ years as a coach I’ve come to realize that almost every client I’ve worked is missing one of the most important aspects of success, and that is personal development. Of the many subjects we study in school, it truly breaks my heart that personal development is not one of them. Just in case you’re not aware, personal development is a way for people to assess their skills and qualities, consider their aims in life and set goals in order to realise and maximise their potential. Here, I’m going to share with you the 5 steps of personal development.

1. Develop Self Awareness

We are all self aware to a degree, but true self awareness is the beginning of self discipline and true self fulfillment. Self awareness is also a major key to getting rid of bad habits. Read my article on that here. To achieve self awareness you have to practice identifying and observing your behaviors and beliefs. From there you’ll have the ability to choose what you want to keep and what you want to let go.

2. Establish Your Identity

Do you really know yourself? Have you really taken the time for self reflection so you can truly identify who and what you truly are, and who and what you want to be? If you have done this, how often do you take the time do it? The only way we get answers is when we ask questions.

Think about your beliefs, behaviors, desires, and struggles. All of these things paint a picture of who you are. Once you understand you are, you can decide who you want to be. If you don’t like something change it and what ever you like you keep and you build on. We are really malleable in that way.

3. Set Goals & Life Aspirations

It brings us a step closer to fulfillment every time we achieve a goal. We love to win because its empowering. Ever victory proves our competence thus helping us to improve and solidify our self esteem.

Setting goals and life aspirations is pretty intense requires self awareness and knowledge of self. Once you have these to things you can accurately choose the direction you want head in. In another article I’ve outlined the 5 step process to successful goal setting.

4. Develop Strengths & Talents

You can’t create the life you truly want without the skills and tools you need to achieve your goals. You also won’t know what skills you need to develop unless you’ve gone through the first 3 steps. Take a look at your goals and the strengths you have so far and work out a game plan.

Some of us are really charismatic and can get people to help you achieve your vision. Some of us are not charismatic at all, but very crafty and resourceful. There’s always something to make up for what you don’t have and there’s always a way to develop what you do and even don’t have.

Take time to look in your toolbox.

5. Identify & Improve Potential

Identify and improving potential requires the ability to see value. Every extremely successful person has developed the ability to see value. Its like the phrase “one man’s trash is another man’s treasure.” Look at everything in front of you and really try to see the value in it all. In another article I explain 2 keys to train your mind to see value.

As always, thank you for reading and be well.

-Remson

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Personal Development

3 Steps To Create Life Change With The Values Vs Beliefs List

Post author By Remson
Post date April 30, 2017

One of the biggest problems that we face in life is getting our behavior in check. Even though there are things that we really want in life, our behavior takes us in a completely different direction. A typical example of this is wanting to get in shape, but continuing to eat unhealthy and skipping workouts. In order to start fixing this behavior is to understand the important of values and beliefs as well as what’s driving your behavior. Let’s start with 3 steps to create life change with the values vs beliefs list.

What Values Are Exactly

Your values are a large part of what defines you as a person. They are your principles, your code, your essence. Some common values that people have are family, loyalty, trust, happiness, compassion, integrity, success, freedom, strength, health, and things of that nature.

Ideally what we want to do is set goals in accordance to these values and that should manifests as our lifestyle. For example if some values of yours is compassion and integrity, you might decide to live a vegan lifestyle where you make the commitment to not indulge in animal exploitation.

What Beliefs Are Exactly

Your beliefs can either make or break you in everything you do. Beliefs are powerful things that can become submerged deep into your subconscious mind and make you behave in ways that often make you feel like you have no control over what you do or how you feel. This is often the root cause of a person’s failures and even sense of helplessness.

On the other hand your beliefs can empower you in unimaginable ways where your power seems completely limitless. Mastering your beliefs is seriously one of the most important things you can ever do in your life.

The Goal Behind "Values vs Beliefs List"

This list is all about identifying the differences between your values and beliefs and getting them to line up and work in harmony with each other.

3 Steps To Create Life Change With The Values Vs Beliefs List

STEP 1

Take some time to write down a list of your highest held core values.

STEP 2

Take some time to write down a list of your beliefs in relation to the values you’ve listed.

STEP 3

Decide what beliefs you want keep and which ones you want to change and once you do that, start working on changing the ones you want to change, one by one.

You’d be surprised at what you’d learn about yourself. Get started today and see what you come up with.

-Remson

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